You Are Never Too Old To Fall In Love!

You Are Never Too Old To Fall In Love!

Getting It and Keeping It, one of my goals is to share that love is not just for the young. That belief was brought to my attention last week when I had the privilege of performing a wedding for a couple of seventy-year olds. The day was gorgeous with beautiful blue skies and puffy white clouds. The bride and groom were blissfully happy as they exchanged vows and rings.

As these two Senior Citizens looked at each other with eyes of love, I realized that you are never too old to feel romantic love. Although we may age and develop wrinkles and gray hair, inside we remain as young as when we were teenagers. Yet many people tell themselves that as grownups they should act that act their age! After all, old people look old so they should act old.

Many people think that as we get older we are incapable of feeling romantic, and that sexual feelings also atrophy. Plenty of younger folks have problems with desire and performance too. Since I have started using the amazing imagery technique I call the Phoenix Effect Process with my clients, I have helped a number of people well over sixty rediscover their sexual desire and rekindle what might have been a dying flame in their sex life.

An unsatisfying sex life is usually the result of negative beliefs about oneself and lack of information about sex and our bodies. Readily available porn on the internet and magazines that tell us that we must have hot bodies and continue to look young no matter how old we are, have even led women to have plastic surgery to revitalize an aging vagina!

Take stock of yourself and your life and pay attention to all the ways you have convinced yourself that you are unattractive, have no sexual desire, are too old or too wrinkled to have orgasms and take heart. You can re-awaken romance and desire, no matter your age. People are living older today. That means that couples can have more time to love each other.

What Makes a Woman Fall in Love?

What Makes a Woman Fall in Love?

Most men ends up frustrated while trying to win a woman. But making a woman fall in love with you is easier than you ever imagined. Most of the women look for emotional bonding which they explain as connection between the two.

Attraction

The very first thing that makes a women fall in love is a sense of attraction. The attraction is not always physical in nature but include the other aspects such as personality, sense of humour and intelligence of the person. In absence of attraction your chances of being one also goes down, that is when she will start looking for the other ‘right man’.

Compliments

Compliment don’t only mean praise but there is more to it. By complimenting you are giving a silent message that she is being notice and you are interested in her. Remember that compliments are effective when they are sincere and well timed. Even though women love to get compliments but make sure that you don’t overdo it.

Try to know her and give deeper compliments, for instance appreciate her thoughtfulness and generosity. Tell her how witty you find her, how her gentle nature and intelligence amuse you.

Trust

Mostly all women consider trust to be important component in love.  So bring the element of trust in to your relation and make her fall in love with you. Support and respect her when she is opening up emotionally and in turn talk to her about your feelings.

Most of women need to feel secure before entering into a relationship and ones they sense the security and commitment in relation, they are all yours.

Mature man

Mature man can easily make a women fall in love. Women are mostly seen attracted to guys who are responsible and deal with the situations with ‘maturity’. For instance, men who can think rationally even in unfavourable situations. Women mostly complaint about how immature the guys behave. Remember with your maturity can help your relationship by bringing her closer to you.

Emotional bond

Emotional bond is an essential ingredient for making a women fall in love.  Try to get her at the deep emotional level. Make her realise that you are emotionally bonded to her and looking forward for the same.